My fiance and I are (hopefully) getting married outside by my uncle and I need to figure out what that ceremony is actually going to consist of since there will be no religious mass or anything. Any ideas? We plan to write our own vows, but beyond that, I have nothing! In all honesty, I wish we could just be married and skip the whole walking down the aisle, being on display in front of everyone we know. I don't like being the center of attention and every time I think of the ceremony I feel like vomiting. Same goes for the first dance. Yeah, can we skip it? Ugh.
I've been contemplating getting my personal training certification for awhile now. And ISSA is running a promotion right now (which ends tomorrow) so the cost would be $100 less. I've discussed it with Bradley and my mom and they both support me on it. I'm just a little hesitant because the money could certainly be used towards the wedding. But, at my current job, I have a lot of down time (read: bored out of my mind time) and I would love to use that to study for my exam, so I could be just about ready to be certified once we return from our honeymoon and start our new lives together. I'm not a huge fan of my current job, it has nothing to do with what I went to school for or even have an interest in, and the pay is crap. PT appeals to me because I have a definite interest in fitness (even if I might not always want to workout), I like the idea of setting my own hours, and I think it'll make me more of an expert when I want to freelance write for fitness magazines (I went to school for writing), plus the flexible hours will hopefully eventually put me in a better position to have more time to write. I've never been excited about having the same office job, M-F, for the rest of my life. I'd like to do something that gives me more room to work on many things at once. I also think PT will pay better than my current job, which is important if Bradley and I ever want to have a family. Ick. I need to make up my mind asap! Why do I over think things all the time??